Have you ever had a really bad kissing experience?
I have definitely had my fair share of bad kisses but what do you do when you’re faced with such an ordeal! Do you tell them they’re a bad kisser or do you put up with it and hope that you can discretely change their ways? I don’t know about you but kissing is a massive deal breaker for me, if the guy can’t kiss then boom he is outta here! It can either make or break a relationship. If you’re a bad kisser then you’re out the door but if you’re a good kisser, please stay for more... it’s that simple!
Once I dated a guy for a couple of months who was a terrible kisser, it doesn’t sound like a long time but trust me 2 months of bad kissing feels like a lifetime! He said to me that his previous girlfriends had brought to his attention that he wasn’t very good at kissing (They were right!) I didn’t have the heart to tell him I completely agreed with them, but what do you do in this situation? Would you rather know you’re not very good at it or be completely oblivious to the whole thing? How the hell do you tell someone they’re a crap kisser? It’s an awkward situation no matter which way you look at it.
Last year my friend met this amazing guy overseas, while their romance was only fleeting he definitely left an impact on her. They kept in touch and about 6 months after they met he made a trip to Perth to see her. It was all going along swimmingly, the sparks were flying until he leant in for the kiss...’Oh my God he was the worst kisser ever, it made me want to throw up a little’ – her words not mine! Way to ruin a perfectly good romance story, boy flies to other side of the world to meet girl and bam she wants to vomit in his mouth. Honestly it can be a deal breaker and changes your whole perspective on someone. I must point out here she must have been really drunk when she first kissed him not to notice it then but that’s another story!
Personally I am far too chicken to say anything for fear of hurting someone’s feelings but I guess it just comes down to the situation you are faced with. If it is a pash and dash then there’s probably no reason to say anything to them but if you’re really into someone and you want to make it work then maybe you need to bite the bullet and just tell them? There really are some people out there who just don’t have a clue. Perhaps there does need to be some sort of kissing class available, after all they don’t teach you that in high school.
Final thought! If you’re a bad kisser what else are going to need help with? I’m just saying.